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Introduction

In this lesson, we will delve into the social etiquette and expressions used in Japanese society. Understanding and using polite and humble language is crucial when interacting with others in Japan. By learning the appropriate social norms and customs, you will be able to navigate social situations with ease and show respect to those around you.

This lesson will cover various aspects of social etiquette, including polite and humble expressions, honorifics, and appropriate behavior in different social settings. We will also explore cultural differences and regional variations in the usage of social expressions. Additionally, we will provide practical examples and exercises to help you practice and reinforce what you have learned.

By the end of this lesson, you will have a solid understanding of social etiquette and be able to communicate effectively in Japanese society.

Polite and Humble Expressions

Politeness is highly valued in Japanese culture, and using the appropriate expressions when speaking to others is considered essential. Polite language, known as "keigo," is used to show respect and maintain harmonious relationships. Let's take a look at some common polite and humble expressions:

Greetings

When greeting someone in a formal or respectful setting, it is common to use the expression "おはようございます" (ohayou gozaimasu), which means "good morning." This expression is often used until around noon. In the afternoon, you can use "こんにちは" (konnichiwa), which means "good afternoon."

When it's evening, you can greet someone by saying "こんばんは" (konbanwa), which means "good evening." These expressions are commonly used in both formal and informal situations.

Thank You

Expressing gratitude is an essential aspect of Japanese culture. To say "thank you" in a polite manner, you can use the expression "ありがとうございます" (arigatou gozaimasu). This phrase is used to show gratitude in various situations, such as when someone helps you or gives you a gift.

In more formal settings or when expressing deeper gratitude, you can use "どうもありがとうございます" (doumo arigatou gozaimasu). This expression conveys a higher level of politeness and gratitude.

Excuse Me

When you need to get someone's attention or apologize for interrupting, you can use the phrase "すみません" (sumimasen). This expression is equivalent to saying "excuse me" or "I'm sorry" and is used in various situations, such as when asking for directions or when accidentally bumping into someone.

In more formal situations, you can use "失礼します" (shitsurei shimasu) to apologize or excuse yourself when entering or leaving a room. It is also used when interrupting a conversation or asking for a favor.

Introductions

When introducing yourself in a formal setting, it is customary to use the expression "はじめまして" (hajimemashite), which means "nice to meet you." This phrase is often followed by your name and possibly your occupation or affiliation.

To ask someone's name politely, you can use the phrase "お名前は何ですか" (onamae wa nan desu ka), which means "what is your name?" This expression is used to show respect and is commonly used when meeting someone for the first time.

Apologies

In Japanese culture, apologizing is considered an important aspect of maintaining harmonious relationships. When apologizing for a mistake or inconvenience, it is common to use the phrase "ごめんなさい" (gomennasai), which means "I'm sorry." This expression is used in various situations, such as when arriving late or making a mistake.

For more formal apologies or when expressing deeper regret, you can use the phrase "申し訳ありません" (moushiwake arimasen). This expression conveys a higher level of apology and is commonly used in professional or serious situations.

Requests

When making a request in a polite manner, it is common to use the phrase "お願いします" (onegaishimasu), which means "please." This expression is used when asking for a favor or making a polite request.

For more formal requests or when speaking to someone of higher status, you can use the phrase "お願いいたします" (onegai itashimasu). This expression conveys a higher level of politeness and respect.

Honorifics and Titles

In Japanese society, honorifics and titles are commonly used to show respect and maintain hierarchical relationships. Let's take a look at some common honorifics and titles:

-さん (-san)

The honorific "-さん" (-san) is a generic title used to address someone politely. It is a gender-neutral term and can be used in various situations, such as when addressing someone's name or occupation. For example, "田中さん" (Tanaka-san) can be used to address Mr. or Ms. Tanaka.

The use of "-さん" (-san) is appropriate in most situations and is a safe and respectful way to address someone when you are unsure of their preferred title or honorific.

-先生 (-sensei)

The honorific "-先生" (-sensei) is used to address teachers, doctors, and other professionals. It is a respectful term that acknowledges someone's expertise in their field. For example, "山田先生" (Yamada-sensei) can be used to address a teacher named Yamada.

-様 (-sama)

The honorific "-様" (-sama) is a more formal and respectful title used to address someone of higher status or importance. It is used to show deep respect and is often used in formal or ceremonial settings. For example, "田中様" (Tanaka-sama) can be used to address someone with a high social status or a customer in a business setting.

The use of "-様" (-sama) should be reserved for special occasions or when addressing someone of significant importance.

-君 (-kun) and -ちゃん (-chan)

The honorifics "-君" (-kun) and "-ちゃん" (-chan) are used to address someone in a more familiar and informal manner. "-君" (-kun) is commonly used to address boys or younger males, while "-ちゃん" (-chan) is used to address younger children, close friends, or loved ones.

For example, "太郎君" (Tarou-kun) can be used to address a boy named Tarou, and "さくらちゃん" (Sakura-chan) can be used to address a young girl named Sakura.

Family Titles

When addressing family members or relatives, specific titles are used to denote the relationship. For example, "お父さん" (otousan) is used to address one's own father, and "お兄さん" (oniisan) is used to address one's older brother.

It is important to note that these titles may vary depending on the region or family. Some families may use different terms or variations of the titles mentioned above. It is always best to ask for clarification if you are unsure of the appropriate title to use.

Cultural Insights

Japanese society places a strong emphasis on respect, harmony, and maintaining hierarchical relationships. Understanding the social norms and customs can greatly enhance your interactions with others in Japan. Here are some cultural insights related to social etiquette and expressions:

Bowing

Bowing is a common form of greeting and showing respect in Japanese culture. The depth and duration of the bow can vary depending on the situation and the level of respect being shown. In more formal settings, a deeper and longer bow is expected, while a slight nod of the head is sufficient in informal situations.

When bowing, it is important to maintain eye contact and show sincerity. It is also customary to return a bow if someone bows to you as a sign of respect.

Gift-giving

Gift-giving is an important aspect of Japanese culture, especially during special occasions or when visiting someone's home. When presenting a gift, it is customary to use both hands and bow slightly as a sign of respect.

Gifts are often wrapped in decorative paper and should be given and received with gratitude. It is considered polite to wait until the recipient opens the gift before opening one's own gift if exchanged.

Shoes and Slippers

In Japanese culture, it is customary to remove your shoes before entering someone's home, certain traditional establishments, or even some modern buildings. This practice helps maintain cleanliness and is a sign of respect.

When entering a home or building where shoes are not worn, you will be provided with slippers to wear instead. It is important to remove the slippers when entering tatami rooms or using the restroom, as separate slippers are often provided for these areas.

Silence and Nonverbal Communication

In Japanese culture, silence is often valued and considered a sign of respect and attentiveness. Pauses in conversation are seen as an opportunity for reflection and are not necessarily awkward or uncomfortable.

Nonverbal communication, such as facial expressions and body language, also play an important role in Japanese society. It is important to be mindful of your own nonverbal cues and to pay attention to the cues of others to ensure effective communication.

Exercises

Now it's time to practice what you've learned. Try the following exercises to reinforce your understanding of social etiquette and expressions in Japanese:

Exercise 1: Polite Expressions Match the following Japanese expressions with their English translations:

Japanese	Pronunciation	English
おはようございます	Ohayou gozaimasu	Good morning
ありがとうございます	Arigatou gozaimasu	Thank you
すみません	Sumimasen	Excuse me
はじめまして	Hajimemashite	Nice to meet you
ごめんなさい	Gomennasai	I'm sorry
お願いします	Onegaishimasu	Please

Exercise 2: Honorifics and Titles Choose the appropriate honorific or title for each situation:

1. Addressing a teacher: ____________ 2. Addressing a customer: ____________ 3. Addressing a close friend: ____________ 4. Addressing your own father: ____________ 5. Addressing someone of higher status: ____________

Solution:

1. Addressing a teacher: 先生 (sensei) 2. Addressing a customer: 様 (sama) 3. Addressing a close friend: ちゃん (chan) 4. Addressing your own father: お父さん (otousan) 5. Addressing someone of higher status: さん (san)

Conclusion

In this lesson, we have explored the social etiquette and expressions used in Japanese society. Polite and humble language is an essential part of communication in Japan, and understanding the appropriate social norms and customs is crucial for building positive relationships.

By mastering the use of polite and humble expressions, honorifics, and understanding cultural insights, you will be able to navigate social situations with confidence and show respect to those around you.

Continue practicing and incorporating these expressions and customs into your daily interactions with others. By doing so, you will not only improve your language skills but also deepen your understanding of Japanese culture.

お疲れ様でした！(Otsukaresama deshita) Good job!

Table of Contents - Japanese Course - 0 to A1

• Course Presentation

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Hiragana Basics

• Hiragana Reading and Writing Practice
• Introduction to Japanese Sentence Structure
• Particle は and が
• Verb Conjugation
• Noun and Adjective Modification
• Question Words and Phrases

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Greetings and Introductions

• Greetings
• Introducing Yourself and Others
• Describing People
• Counting Numbers and Time
• Basic Food and Drink Terminology
• Daily Activities and Hobbies
• Basic Directions and Transportation

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Geography and History

• Introduction to Japanese Geography
• Brief History of Japan
• Traditional Arts and Customs
• Popular Culture and Entertainment

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Adjectives and Adverbs

• Adjective Conjugation
• Adjective Types and Usage
• Adverb Types and Usage
• Comparison and Superlative
• Adjective and Adverbial Modification

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Family and Social Relations

• Family Members and Titles
• Social Etiquette and Expressions
• Basic Workplace and Business Terminology
• Shopping and Consumer Culture

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Religion and Philosophy

• Shinto and Buddhism
• Zen and Samurai Culture
• Contemporary Spiritual Movements

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Particles and Conjunctions

• Particles に and で
• Particles へ and を
• Particles も and しか
• Conjunctions and Compound Sentences
• Conditional and Hypothetical Sentences

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Travel and Tourism

• Basic Travel and Tourism Vocabulary
• Famous Tourist Attractions and Landmarks
• Japanese Hospitality and Service Culture

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Education and Science

• Educational System and Vocabulary
• Traditional and Modern Science and Technology
• Natural Disasters and Risk Prevention

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Prepositions and Interjections

• Prepositions and Postpositions
• Emphasis and Intensification
• Exclamation and Impression Expressions

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Arts and Media

• Film and Theater Terminology
• Music and Dance Terminology
• Art and Literature Terminology

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Politics and Society

• Basic Political Vocabulary
• Social Issues and Controversies
• Japanese Business and Work Culture

Sources

• Japanese Etiquette Rules: The Do's and Don'ts
• Japanese Greetings and Parting Phrases
• Polite and Useful Japanese Business Phrases - PLAZA HOMES
• Rules for Japanese Letter Format

Other Lessons

• Greetings
• Love
• Feelings and Emotions
• Body
• Vehicles
• Astronomy
• Nature
• Famous Tourist Attractions and Landmarks
• City
• Metals

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